Sigh.
I don't have a problem with you. I do have a problem with your inability to separate "qualified" from "best suited". And I was 100% accurate with what I quoted from Dpo. He quoted you, and responded with what I provided. He THEN quoted a different part of your post, and responded with what you added. I stated it was his first response, which it was.
I see people every day that are "qualified" to be parents; they possess the correct parts, know how to use them, and may have the financial means to raise a child. This does not equate to being "best suited" to be parents. When they look back, they may realize that having children at that time was not the wisest choice, but that dos not mean that they were not "qualified" at the time.
I am "qualified" to rebuild the carburetor on my vintage Vespa. I did a crap job of it last time, and brought it in to an expert to get it running right. This spring, I will be taking apart the carb again to clean it, and I think the jets are gunked up. I am qualified to do that job. I might not have the experience of having done it numerous times, but I have the tools, and understanding about how it all fits together. And if I jack it up (again) I'll have to take it to Scooterville, or some of my other contacts to get it running tight. I'm not good at it yet, but I am qualified to perform that task.