Costa Rican Gopher...
"You're one of the most reasonable posters on here Gopher Lady."
I agree and am curious to hear your thoughts GL on Royce's most recent incident. This is not intended to taunt you or bait you Nadine, I'm genuinely interested to hear what you think as you defended him after the throwing the ball at Damian Johnson when his back was turned/ quitting/walking out on his team at summer league. I know some others who've been in the guy's corner like you have tired of his antics since that time, but how are you feeling about him? There's no doubt he can be charming when he wants to be (So can sociopathic serial killers) as he made very good impressions on you and BigGopherFan. Are you still of the mind that he's a super guy, just misunderstood? Expelled from the dorms, shoplifting, assault....would you agree it's a pattern he brings on himself or do you see these issues as unrelated? Thoughts?
First of all, thank you for your well written post and questions. You could of easily give me a great big "I told you so," but you didn't, you took the higher ground, and I commend you for that.
As you remember, I have defended Royce for years, I really, truly believed in him - and that's why I wanted him to write the blog for GopherHole last year, after getting so much bad press. I thought if his personality could come out, and people saw what I did in my interactions with them, they'd give him another chance...and a lot of people did. They seemed to enjoy that.
So many of these kids come from rough backgrounds, that I could never understand coming from a very supportive, and traditional family. I really think a lot of these kids can stay on the right path if people believe in them, support them, and most importantly, teach them. I think most of you know that I do defend a lot of the kids I really like and believe in, and most have turned out to be great kids.
I understand a lot of the kids will be kids thing...but the one thing I don't tolerate is violence. That's how I've been with the football players too. Kids drink, they get minors, they make mistakes (I did)...but I can't deal with any of the assault issues, I will not defend those actions.
As for my current thoughts on Royce right now, if everything that has been written has been true (and I have no reason to believe it's not), I can sum up my feelings in one word...disappointed.