Sorry Littlebigboy I decided not to submit it as a letter to the editor.
Star Tribune Leadership,
I have never written to complain about a columnist because I think everyone is entitles to their opinion, but this hit me a little too close home for me. In Jim Souhan’s column “In category of health, Kill falls too short to continue” I was completely caught off guard. Is this the message you want the Star Tribune to be known for? “You can’t because you are disabled”.
I guess I should not be negotiating and writing temp labor contracts because I am dyslexic. I wish Mr. Souhan would have told me that before I wasted the last decade of my life doing just that for a Fortune 100 company.
Jim Souhan is looking right into the eyes of thousands of little kids and saying “You can’t because you are disabled”. People like Coach Kill, that are succeeding in life even with a disability, mean everything to little kids struggling with disabilities. Doctors and specialists point to these successful people and say “look, you can do it”. Growing up I was bullied by other kids and told by a high school guidance counselor I would never graduate high school because of my disability. I did graduate high school, earned a bachelor’s of science and made the Dean’s list several times in the process. I am glad my parents never let me quit and gave me role models like Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Nelson Rockefeller, Thomas Jefferson, and Benjamin Franklyn to look up to. I am also glad that Jim Abbott didn’t have a bully like Jim Souhan telling him he couldn’t play Major-League Baseball because he only had one hand. I do understand the point of the article, but if the for mentioned role models did “step aside” as is suggested in this article, it would have been a great loss to our society don’t you think?
Coach Jerry Kill should be judged not by what happens on the side line, but by what happens on the field. Not by the disability he has, but by how his players grow and improve on and off the field. Is the program better than when he got here and is it still moving in the right direction? Is he a good role model? That is how we should judge Coach Kill.
And as for Jim’s rebuttal. Just because it is hard to watch someone in a wheel chair play basketball, or watch the Special Olympics, it is not “being cruel” to let someone chase their dreams. People like Jim Souhan and their reactions are the reason many of us try to hide our disabilities. Even if you can perform your job at a high level, people question whether you can, and scrutinize you with a microscope. Unlike Coach Kill, with the exception of a couple misspelled words and being a slow reader, I can hide my disability from the Jim Souhans of the world, not everyone is so lucky.
Those of us with disabilities may not all reach the stars we strive for, but we do learn to fly higher because we have role models that show us it can be done.
To Coach Kill: keep up the fight. “If at first the breaks are going against you, Don’t let down, put on more steam!” Murray Warmath. It may sound corny, but it is better than reading you can’t because your brain doesn’t work like everyone else’s.
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(real town), MN