disco
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I think everyone has their "no-way" sports as a parent. Mine is Hockey. The culture looks completely toxic and seems to teach the anti-lessons that you want in sports.
My parents wouldn't let me play hockey because of the culture and the cost, and that was 35 years ago.
I agree, the youth hockey culture is bad, but I think it gets a worse rap because it was the first, and it's been that way for so long. But that culture permeates many youth sports now (football is actually an exception). I know parents who dedicate that same amount of time to their kids basketball, soccer and swimming at the grade school level. It's year-round, takes up the majority of weekends and has the same crazy parents (the type of people I have little interest in socializing with).
I'm torn on letting the boy play hockey, simply because I absolutely love the game, despite having never played. I actually took my son to a local high school game tonight (he has the attention span of a gnat right now, so he's good for about a period and a half). He really wants to try soccer, so that's probably going to be first for him (and it's a lot of running around, which would be good.) The costs involved in hockey are just so brutal...