I don't think the issue, even in Konrad's situation, as as black-and-white as him thinking "well, I don't really want to be at Minnesota, but I'll tell them all how pumped I am about being a Gopher anyway." At least, I hope not
My original point was this: he shouldn't have committed in the first place. And even when he did commit, some measured language would have been much more preferable. Instead, we got this rambling account of how this was the end of the process, how Wisconsin had their chance and how much he was looking forward to being a Gopher, all of which, as it turned out, was patently false. That's the real problem. And call me crazy, but he deserves to be held accountable for it, whether he is a teenager or an adult. That's just the way it goes.