Sorry to hear that 24. IF there is not enough "moral compass" by a fairly young age, there might not be a very good sense of direction that can over-ride a faulty moral compass reading. Perhaps what is even more dangerous is a "sense of entitlement" that completely over-rides everything. If you don't have the "rights down from the wrongs" by the time you are half-way through high school, and your "entitlement sensed" is running your show and you can easily take a look around you and conclude "everybody's doing it..." things are pretty well all over and won't change very much any time soon....if ever.
The truth of the matter is that "everyone..." is NOT doing it. Only "some..." IF you start playing with a "moral compass" and a sense of "entitlement" over-rides all else, it seems to me you are just making excuses and setting a course for an "easier, softer..." path to follow.
Yes, we ALL make mistakes. And, not everyone will have the same value system as everyone else. I'm not smart enough to know what the value system should be for everyone else. I don't have control over anyone or anything else. But, I do know when something is right or wrong for me. And I have known that ever since I was a really young kid. I also know that there was something really tugging at me and letting me know IF I did something to break the rules and it really got my attention. Perhaps I should say that it really GETS my attention. Yes, even at my ancient age, my "moral compass still needs to rise up and let me know who is boss. And, believe me, I don't always like it when that old conscience NEEDS to kick me upside the head.
OBVIOUSLY, some people, like it would appear Jim Tressel, never did learn the difference between right and wrong. He appears to have let his sense of entitlement over-ride his moral comapss. I suppose all of us do that or try to do that sometimes. The same with Pete Carroll at USC and Haskins at Minnesota. One must conclude that ever since a very young age, those folks had their moral compass over-ridden and their sense of entitlement rewarded, big time. But, at some point in time, it would appear that they decided that breaking the rules was more important than following that moral compass.
For some people, it's cheat on your spouse...or...cheat on your taxes...or, decide that all those lectures you heard when you got to college about rules and regulations from the compliance department didn't really apply to you. Each year that goes by without paying attention to the difference between right and wrong makes it that much more difficult to start paying attention to the difference between right and wrong. And, the most dangerous phrase just may be; "...everybody's doing it..."
If a person hears those "everybody's doing it" tapes playing all the time...I guess it just may be on the way to being too late already... Well, I'll take that back...I guess it's never really EVER too late to start listening to that old conversation about knowing the difference between right and wrong. There is ALWAYS a chance...if we just learn to listen...yes, it IS a part of our human condition. But we need to keep trying... ; 0 )