This is typical
I'm with Maximus on this one. Too many gray areas in this case for me to turn this into a giddy celebration.
I hope Trevor didn't have anything to do with this. I'll leave it at that, then hope that whether he plays for the Gophers or Memphis, he'll be an exemplary citizen throughout his career.
I'm completely fine with this. There are NUMEROUS turns of events along the course of issues like this that none of us are aware of. Case in point:
I have a CLOSE personal friend who went through almost the EXACT SAME THING, with the exact same resolution, the only difference being a domestic dispute between recently divorced folks; disgruntled ex-wife claimed the ex-husband hit her in the course of an argument.
It was about to get thrown out by the DA, DA had a change of heart the day he was going to dismiss the charge. DA and my friend's attorney got together in the back room of the courtroom and hashed out a deal; completion of an on-line course for domestic violence or anger management (I can't recall for sure), keep his nose clean for 90 days; re-convene in court after that 90 days and the matter gets complete eradicated from the record.
My buddy was sick about it; he didn't do anything and wanted to prove just that, but his ATTORNEY convinced him that this was the best way to go. No admission of guilt, no plea, and now, a couple years later, it's ancient history.
ANOTHER THING TO CONSIDER HERE: My buddy's attorney told him that his deal would have died a LONG time earlier in the process but in this day and age, domestic violence and any violence against women is the "blue collar crime" of the time or basically much much more in the public spotlight than many other crimes; much more difficult for DA's to simply dismiss even if they know they don't have much of a case or there isn't much there. I would guess the DA dragging this out was largely due to them going through the motions and showing that they were treating the case seriously, for the benefit of all those watching.
I have no problem with Trevor electing to have the situation resolved this way. It's better for all parties involved, including the Dade County staff I'm sure.