Or, what happened to her did not cross the line into a criminal offense.
And yes, I have been harassed/assaulted or bullied if you will on 3 different occasions. Physical assaults on two occasions, bullying and assault on the third. All 3 occasions the aggressor was a larger male, physically stronger and they knew it. Two of the episodes were, to my knowledge, unprovoked, just boys/men looking for trouble, feeding their egos. The worst episode involved bullying etc, verbally at first over several days, that eventually escalated to physical assault in the locker room. Then he moved on to the next victim. The last episode, in college, involved alcohol and a steroid-bulked lunkhead that discovered his girlfriend dancing with me at a club. I didn't see the swing coming that knocked me to the ground. Shades of Phil Nelson episode. I was not knocked out and was able to break my fall.
I suspect my experiences are not rare. I suspect most women have been stalked, harassed, made to feel uncomfortable, and double digit percentages have even been sexually assaulted or raped.
I'm not minimizing what happened to her. It was unprofessional, inappropriate, and borderline criminal. I'm asking you to throttle it back a notch. "Heinous" describes a lot of things that humans do to each other, or what disease can do to our bodies. Your lack of perspective about these things and the colorful wording makes me think you have been relatively cocooned from real stressors thus far, or you are quite young.
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The word heinous is generally reserved for the very worst of actions that are simply unimaginable by the common public.
If you find Teagues actions heinous...you do lead a sheltered life.
I think "disgusting" may be a little more appropriate for the situation.
Somehow this is now being bandied about like it was the revival of the Rape of Nankin.
Now THAT earned the achievement of "heinous".
I an NOT in any way condoning Teagues actions, but let's try and remember her a couple of things...
One, the media has sensationalized the situation tossing around words like "groped" and "attacked" knowing they would entice readers into the story.
Give me a break.
Poking someone in the side and rubbing their back does not constitute groping any more than dropping the F-bomb on somebody constitutes assault.
Teague was out of line..... period.
But he was no more out of line than a thousand other poonhounds on any given night of the week.
His biggest crime was the fact that he did it while in the capacity of being the AD for the U.
Wrong? absolutely.
Poor judgement? Completely.
Criminal? Sexual harassment occurs in the workplace. Using ones power to force someone into a compromising situation.
In public it's just boorish behavior.
Remove Teague from the AD office and he was just another Lothario loose on the street.
Again, I am not condoning his actions in any way.....but let's keep some modicum of reality attached to the situation.
PE was right, you need to get out more if you are going to act as though this is the most indignant thing you have ever witnessed.
edit : move quote to the upper are