these guys may be skilled athletes, but they are still just kids. 16 and 17-year-olds. they are still figuring out who they are and who they want to be.
throw in a huge decision like choosing a college - and where to play football - and that is a lot for a young person to deal with.
Some kids handle it better than others.
I would rather have a recruit be sure about their commitment, as opposed to making a snap decision, getting on campus, and regretting it a few weeks later. That is a sure ticket for the portal in today's landscape.
whether this kid comes to MN or not, for his sake, he needs to make the best decision he can.
unless we're talking about a once-in-a-lifetime, transformational level of talent, one player more or less is not going to make or break the program.