I like to think the conversations with PJ go like this.
Player: "Hey coach, I was reading online that we might be over on the number of scholarships. I know you recruited me, but I can see playing time might be tough for me. I'm thinking maybe I should transfer out."
PJ: "Don't worry about the scholarships, we'll figure something out. Since you were in my first class, I'd really like to keep you."
Player: "PJ, I know this is a difficult conversation, but with what you have taught me, I'm prepared to make this difficult decision. Even though it's time for me to leave, I'll always be thankful for expanding my life athletically, academically, socially, and spiritually, and you've helped me improve my best every day, I'll always be thankful for everything you've done for me!" (tears flowing).
PJ: "I couldn't be prouder of you right now. Let me make some calls to some contacts to get you in a good spot where you can be a leader ON THE FIELD!" (HUGS ALL AROUND).