Slight is another word for insult.
You can choose to take anything that anyone says as an insult. I could say the sky is blue, and you could take that as an insult.
So, how you chose to take those words is meaningless.
What matters is Suggs' intention in saying those words. Was he intending to insult the Gophers and Pitino? That's the only thing that's meaningful, here.
I say, he was not intending that. Rather, he was simply explaining why the Gophers fell off his radar. They weren't the specific type of program he was looking for.
I don't see what's difficult about that to accept.
So I think you want it to be the case that he intended to insult the team and Pitino. You want to believe that is the truth. And you don't care what the actual truth is.