I know you try but you are piss poor at diagnosing other people's thoughts and motivations. Where do I begin?
Almost no one thought this was a truly good hire.
Ben is in his third season. That's been the minimum tenure for failed Big Ten coaches. If he doesn't get the job done, he deserves to be fired but he shouldn't get fewer years than any other failed Big Ten coach.
The bottom line is that those of us that are supporting Ben and his team at this time just want all the assholes to shut up and quit repeating the same old tedious gripes ad nauseum. Also, we want the team to do well because, well, we would prefer a better season than a worse one. Even you should be able to understand that. If he does well enough, he should get a 4th season but he shouldn't be guaranteed any more than that.