The difference is in the ability to actually change things. Kill is free to complain about the play of his players, the schedule, the coaching of his staff, etc., etc. because he actually has some level of control over, and responsibility for, those things. As fans, we can sit and piss and moan about how we wish the Gophers were better, but NOTHING we do can make them be better. We can help by cheering loudly, donating money, etc., but it's ultimately on the players and coaches to perform. Bitching about things you have no control over does nothing but leave you frustrated.
I didn't mean it in the sense of the respective ability of Kill versus fans to act on/rectify complaints. I meant it from the stance of whether it is the right thing to do to try to remove a game that is already scheduled for being too challenging.
I think Kill should just deal with the fact that we're scheduled to visit Chapel Hill. He didn't schedule the game, and he wouldn't if he had the choice. But, if you're Kill, I think you have to just sack up and play the games on your schedule, even if you'd personally prefer to play a cupcake at home.
As fans, we can (and have) discussed at length the relative merits of playing all cupcakes versus scheduling a name school while building a program. The difference here is that the game is already scheduled. How does dropping a scheduled game for being too difficult help develop a winning mentality?
Kill is essentially telling us and, more importantly, his players, that he doesn't think the team can handle the challenge of playing a middle-tier ACC squad on probation. How does essentially trying to wuss out foster a winning attitude? "Here's a tough game, let's try to remove it from the schedule." What happened to sisu? Was it all talk, with no force behind it? We already had a coach who could do that.
When Lane Kiffin ranked USC #1, he said something to the effect that he can't coach his team if he thinks some other team is better. A little brash, but as a coach, you need a bit of that mentality. For Kill to complain and try to remove the UNC game from the schedule is, frankly, gutless, and it shows no confidence in this team or the direction it's headed.
I can't picture Kill allowing, say, an O-Lineman to check himself out of the game because he thinks the opponent's DT is too good, too much of a challenge at this phase in his career. But that's essentially what Kill is doing. I'm honestly disappointed that Kill's reaction is to complain about it and try to remove it, rather than thinking, "let's go down to Chapel Hill and beat the piss out of UNC." Also, can somebody rationalize how trying to back down from a challenge (and not even a significant challenge--it's UNC football) helps create a winning environment?