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Nobody involved with the University outside of football fans see it that way, so I'm not sure what makes you qualified to give that opinion.
Cruze arrogantly kept on making posts to the effect of "where are all those lawsuits?"
Well.....
Kaler was certainly the bigger issue.
Coyle, as the AD, should not have talked so much about things like improving the character of the team, "living in truth", etc. At that time, while Gopher football players were accused of sexual assault, an assault they denied, it's a bad look.
His press conference when he fired Claeys should have been something like "I want to thank Tracy for all that he has done here, but we decided to go in a new direction." It should have been vanilla as possible. It's difficult to listen to Coyle speak in the time between the bowl game and the hiring of Fleck and not come out of it with the impression that he didn't believe the players. He is entitled to that opinion, personally, but when you're their AD. . . it's trouble to verbalize it publicly.
This! While I want to be respectful, and I want to state that sexual assault is a serious issue, so many were so smug. So "well of course they did it...". There was not much of a let us wait and see in this case. It was a guilty until it can be proven guilty stance. Not here, but I even heard statements such as "they are animals and don't deserve a fair trial".
Don't want to re-litigate the whole deal, but after reading the lawsuit, there is one fairly inescapable conclusion.
The players and Jane Doe are telling stories that are completely opposite of each other. They cannot both be right. Now, I'm not saying anyone is deliberately lying. Memories are subjective. We can be convinced that we remember something accurately, and it turns out we didn't.
But - back to my point. If the players are right (or at least closer to the 'real' truth), then Jane Doe is wrong. If Jane Doe is right, then the players are wrong.
And if the players are right, then they got a raw deal. They were branded as sexual predators for a consensual encounter. This whole situation was handled poorly from the get-go. mistakes were made on both sides. but only the players have paid a real penalty in terms of consequences. I'm not saying this has been a picnic for Jane Doe - her life will never be the same. But she didn't have her picture on the front page of the paper, and if you google her name, the first thing that that comes up is not going to be "expelled from college for sexual assault."
I am not saying the players deserve a gold star for good conduct - but if they are telling the truth, then they are victims in this case - just as much as Jane Doe is a victim.
Don't want to re-litigate the whole deal, but after reading the lawsuit, there is one fairly inescapable conclusion.
The players and Jane Doe are telling stories that are completely opposite of each other. They cannot both be right. Now, I'm not saying anyone is deliberately lying. Memories are subjective. We can be convinced that we remember something accurately, and it turns out we didn't.
But - back to my point. If the players are right (or at least closer to the 'real' truth), then Jane Doe is wrong. If Jane Doe is right, then the players are wrong.
And if the players are right, then they got a raw deal. They were branded as sexual predators for a consensual encounter. This whole situation was handled poorly from the get-go. mistakes were made on both sides. but only the players have paid a real penalty in terms of consequences. I'm not saying this has been a picnic for Jane Doe - her life will never be the same. But she didn't have her picture on the front page of the paper, and if you google her name, the first thing that that comes up is not going to be "expelled from college for sexual assault."
I am not saying the players deserve a gold star for good conduct - but if they are telling the truth, then they are victims in this case - just as much as Jane Doe is a victim.
How ironic. The starting pitcher today for Oregon State against the Gophers wasn’t drafted, even though he is their best pitcher. They had 3 players drafted in the first round. Why, you ask? Because he was accused of sexual assault. Still playing and representing Oregon State, you betcha. Would he be playing for the Gophers if this happened in Minneapolis? Don’t think so.
My main point was that there was a rush to judgement against the players from moment one.
Hear! Hear! This whole issue revolves around the hubris of a militant crowd hiding in the fight for social justice and equality. They hide their specious, exploitative and manipulative behavior behind a righteous cloak. It begins with the "guilty until proven innocent" stance taken against anyone accused of sexual harassment or assault and manifests with coercing a person out of their belief that they were behaving consensually in morally questionable behavior and into believing they were subjugated to a criminally submissive act. The mentality of these militants is entirely based on the ends justifying the means regardless of their own immoral, unethical or even criminal behavior. They want their social justice to be pink or lavender with no room for darker hues or alternate colors.Don't want to re-litigate the whole deal, but after reading the lawsuit, there is one fairly inescapable conclusion.
The players and Jane Doe are telling stories that are completely opposite of each other. They cannot both be right. Now, I'm not saying anyone is deliberately lying. Memories are subjective. We can be convinced that we remember something accurately, and it turns out we didn't.
But - back to my point. If the players are right (or at least closer to the 'real' truth), then Jane Doe is wrong. If Jane Doe is right, then the players are wrong.
And if the players are right, then they got a raw deal. They were branded as sexual predators for a consensual encounter. This whole situation was handled poorly from the get-go. mistakes were made on both sides. but only the players have paid a real penalty in terms of consequences. I'm not saying this has been a picnic for Jane Doe - her life will never be the same. But she didn't have her picture on the front page of the paper, and if you google her name, the first thing that that comes up is not going to be "expelled from college for sexual assault."
I am not saying the players deserve a gold star for good conduct - but if they are telling the truth, then they are victims in this case - just as much as Jane Doe is a victim.
Men should be raised to protect and look out for the women in their life.
As I read these comments, I think that it's pretty clear that the vast majority of gen X and millennials fail to understand that responsibility.
It's an embarrassment to American culture, male heritage, and, apparently now, the University of Minnesota.
Even if these players did absolutely nothing to harm this woman (which, from what I have seen so far, seems very unlikely), they still had a drunken orgy on a Saturday night, that made it's way to national headlines, and managed to cause extensive damage to the reputation of the University of Minnesota.
That alone should be enough to expel any one of them.
Attending this University should be a privilege.
If you're conducting yourself in a way that draws significant negative attention to the institution, then I don't understand how you all can justify that behavior.
Men should be raised to protect and look out for the women in their life.
As I read these comments, I think that it's pretty clear that the vast majority of gen X and millennials fail to understand that responsibility.
It's an embarrassment to American culture, male heritage, and, apparently now, the University of Minnesota.
Even if these players did absolutely nothing to harm this woman (which, from what I have seen so far, seems very unlikely), they still had a drunken orgy on a Saturday night, that made it's way to national headlines, and managed to cause extensive damage to the reputation of the University of Minnesota.
That alone should be enough to expel any one of them.
Attending this University should be a privilege.
If you're conducting yourself in a way that draws significant negative attention to the institution, then I don't understand how someone can justify that behavior.
This isn't a criminal issue. That's said and done. This is a University issue. That's why the University is being sued.
The University conducted an investigation, decided that this behavior was unseemly to the University, and removed the relevant parties.
From my point of view, that was the correct course of action.
The incorrect course of action would be to engage in a cover up in which this issue did not follow pre-established procedures.
If you want to be mad at someone, be mad at the Strib's smear campaign.
I don't think that I would have changed a single thing about how the University handled this.
I understand the frustration that the players experienced. From what I read about what Coyle said to them while Claeys was out of town, I would have been as angry as they were.
However, Coyle and Kaler were bound by a certain amount of discretion and if I was in their shoes, I probably wouldn't have felt comfortable disclosing every nuance of the investigation to the players either.
I see you guys talking about "social justice warriors" and "liberal activists" but none of that crap is relevant to what happened here.
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LOL.Please continue, I think it’s enlightening for all of us.
Don't want to re-litigate the whole deal, but after reading the lawsuit, there is one fairly inescapable conclusion.
The players and Jane Doe are telling stories that are completely opposite of each other. They cannot both be right. Now, I'm not saying anyone is deliberately lying. Memories are subjective. We can be convinced that we remember something accurately, and it turns out we didn't.
But - back to my point. If the players are right (or at least closer to the 'real' truth), then Jane Doe is wrong. If Jane Doe is right, then the players are wrong.
And if the players are right, then they got a raw deal. They were branded as sexual predators for a consensual encounter. This whole situation was handled poorly from the get-go. mistakes were made on both sides. but only the players have paid a real penalty in terms of consequences. I'm not saying this has been a picnic for Jane Doe - her life will never be the same. But she didn't have her picture on the front page of the paper, and if you google her name, the first thing that that comes up is not going to be "expelled from college for sexual assault."
I am not saying the players deserve a gold star for good conduct - but if they are telling the truth, then they are victims in this case - just as much as Jane Doe is a victim.
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It appears that negotiated attempts to settle had been made, and the failure to reach an amicable agreement is the filing of the lawsuit.
The University need fix all the issues and move on. They'll be a lot better because of this.
Got a source or just your opinion on failed settlement talks?
Just going by Post #s 85-89. I guess it is speculative.
I think filing of the suit is the opening salvo to serious negotiations.
I'm thinking they didn't need to file it to negotiate. I'm thinking they didn't get what they wanted already, or were outright denied with their opening.
Could be as simple as a letter and the response from the U was "naw".