sorry but when you start making decisions based on the psychological impact of an individual vs. what’s best for the entire team, you’ve lost the thread. If you keep starting him cause you believe it will damage his ego, the opposite effect occurs, it will only damage it more, because it’s now become painfully obvious the coach is propping him up over more deserving players. And now this is creating more dissension in the ranks as players recognize the unfairness of it. And Gabe is put in a position where players are sniping at him over something he doesn’t control. Pitino needs to show some leadership, take some pressure off Gabe by bringing him off the bench. This way he can rebuild his confidence with less pressure to do so, and hopefully earn back his spot over time. If you’re a player you know the rules - if you’re not performing you accept what’s best for the team and accept it / use it for motivation. Hopefully he just needs a reset.