It's an absolutely awful decision as a coach. In your hypothetical, where Ihnen wants to play wing but not the post (which I have no idea if it is true). You would be doing him a disservice. You would be doing the team a disservice. And it would be all for a really bizarre thing like Ihnen quitting and pouting if he doesn't play SF.
That's such a bizarre hypothetical. If any coach caved to that demand, he would be an awful coach.
Number one: we disagree that Ihnen's best position is the post.
Number two: Myself and evidently Ben feel his best position is the perimeter. He was just 7 for 7 as a wing. He is our best perimeter defender.
Number three: Your disservice argument is your opinion. I'll stack my championships, my Coach of the Year Awards up against your opinion it is an awful idea.
Number four: When it comes to winning basketball games, normally I'd coach somebody one or two years...me pushing a square peg in a round hole would lose lots of games. Convincing somebody to do something they don't want to do takes a wasted season long amount of time. Nobody in high school, nobody in college is going play a role they don't want (if they are talented) In high school, you'll be in the AD's office with the parents, if you have an AD who supports you....you'll be in the Principal's office and if you coach at a private school that's tuition money going out the door to stand on your beliefs and you'll be gone.
If it's college they'll transfer. If they are unhappy and stay, I guarantee you'll lose. It'll be no fun for anybody on the team while you teach your lesson.
I don't think it is a demand from Ihnen. It is just obvious what he responds to ... observation in practice. What he likes doing...where he contributes the most to the team. When he plays with the most energy. When he's engaged. Same for all the other players. Secret is blending what they like and are good at into a team that works together. Season is too short to "make em" do stuff (roles they don't wanna play) tasks they don't want to do.
Best coaches are the best manipulators. Ihnen wants to play the wing...you let him...but we all want to win right? well, some nights I need you to defend the post for us to win...agree? here's why...can you help the team out and do that some nights? Okay well, we gotta practice it too...okay? Conversations like that happen...but to just demand he moves to the post will not work.
Defense, rebounding, shot selection etc are things you demand of everybody because it is consistent for everybody on the team ....it's the Gopher Way or whatever team ...it's how the team does does it. Pick your battles, demand they ALL do those kinds of things. That's where discipline matters.
But roles on the team...everybody's personality is different. There is not enough time to win and change somebody. Recruiting needs to target what you are looking for in college.