You may feel bad for cutting a scholarship player than you would also feel bad for denying a player who's mom has cancer and is a good player its a lose lose situation.
This. No one has said this is an easy situation. No one has said it is a "good" situation. There is a bit of good and bad in here. Let's start with the obvious bad:
Trent Lockett's mother. Her having cancer and it getting worse is a horrible situation every single way you look at it. There is no benefit to this what so ever and it is a sad sad situation and you cannot help but feel terrible for Trent and his entire family. Assuming Trent decides the U is the place for him, you then have the bad result of having to see someone who worked his butt off for the U of M leave. Same thing if Trevor comes back. It creates the unfortunate need of "cutting" someone. Now, don't get me wrong, the biggest negative is what the Lockett family is going through, but it is also not good to see ANY player leave for voluntary or involntary reasons.
There is some good here, however, as well.
The non-basketball good would be that Trent gets to be MUCH closer to his mother, she can watch him on TV or at games all the time, he can be close to her and his family whenever he wants to be and they need him. That is a positive of coming to the U. Another possible positive is that were it to be Chip or Mav or Ingram who leave due to Trevor/Lockett they can find a better situation which includes more minutes and more focus in the offense. While I'd hate cutting any Gopher, the truth is those three likely won't see a lot of playing time and may be open to the opportunity to go elsewhere to find it and I'd wish them great success wherever that is.
The other good about Lockett and/or Trevor coming here is the fact that 2012-2013 / 2013-2014 may be the two most important seasons for the future of Gopher basketball. Those two seasons, IMO, will play a HUGE role in what Tyus Jones, Vaughn, etc. will do in 2014. If Lockett arrives and Trevor returns and the Gophers become a national story, make the tournament easily, win the Big 10, make a tourney run etc. and Tubby proves that if you give him talent like that he can do outstanding things with it, that will obviously weigh heavily on Tyus' mind. Tubby needs to produce wins to sign Tyus and move this program to the next level. As much as I'd hate, again, for Chip, Mav or Ingram to leave, if that is what it takes to change this program forever towards the better, that is something I hope Tubby is willing to do.
You cannot tell me that a big tourney run in 12/13, followed by an improved 2013 class, followed by a successful season in 13/14, followed by signing Tyus and company, followed by more big runs, wouldn't be the best chain of events Gopher basketball could hope for and you improve the odds of step 1 happening by making room for Trevor and Lockett.