If it’s an insult to call Graham gay, it’s unequivocally an insult to the group you are trying to identify him with. Homosexuals. You use homosexuality to mock someone. If it’s something that can be used to mock someone with, it can’t be trait that you respect and support.
No not really.
It's about exposing hypocrisy thru mocking.
You can only mock someone with something that that person being mocked thinks is bad, it doesn't matter if you (the mocker) do or don't think it's bad. Can you really not understand this concept?
Maybe watch a few Dave Chappelle sets and you might start to understand.
What is he doing when he calls other groups the N word, like say poor whites?
Does it mean Dave Chappelle hates blacks?