I just checked Wikipedia and I see Ray got married in August 2011.
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Post-NBA career
After his retirement, Williams struggled financially eventually filing for bankruptcy in 1994, which led him to lose his home and family.[3] Williams decided to apply early for his NBA pension of $200,000. After he received it, he moved to Florida, where he fell victim to a real estate scam which worsened his financial condition.
After that, Williams worked various jobs like groundskeeper at a golf course in Central Florida, apartment complex maintenance man, part-time girls basketball coach, and bakery worker, among others. During that time, he also received grants from the NBA Retired Players Association, totaling $10,000, which couldn't help his situation.
According to a profile published in The Boston Globe in July 2010, he was unemployed and homeless, living inside a car in Pompano Beach, Florida.[4] Williams spent his time fishing at the Hillboro Inlet Park in Pompano Beach, to help maintain himself. In November 2010, Williams' luck began to turn around as he took a job in Mount Vernon, New York, working for the city's Recreation Department as a "Recreation Specialist."[5] He was greatly helped by Linda Crawford, a nurse and a friend from his NBA days.[6] Williams and Crawford married in August 2011.
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