Life as a Gopher fan is not easy

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Heck, life as a Minnesota sports fan is not easy. But it's the life we've chosen. Sure I'd love to have some odd reason to cheer for Duke even though I'm originally from Wisconsin (just giving you a hard time Pewter! ;) ) but heck, I choose pain and continued frustration even over an alma mater that recently won a national championship and is currently #1 in the nation. Why? Because you don't give up the on a passion, even if it continues to punch you in the gut. Over and over. Oh, and over again.

Here is a text converation I had with JohnnyGopher right after the game last night (I cleaned up the text-english):

JG: Only the Gophers can do this to us time and time again.
Me: It really is amazing isn't it.
JG: At least the Twins season is coming up.
Me: Yep, I can't wait for Sept when we get swept by the Yanks after Nathan blows a 2 run lead in the 9th in game 2 of the playoffs.
JG: Yea, but by that time we'll be pumped about Gopher football season.
Me: Yep, I can't wait for mid Sept when we have USC on the ropes and we let them off the hook in the 4th.
JG: Yea, but by that time we'll be pumped about the Vikes season.
Me: Yep, I can't wait for Jan. when we commit a once-in-a-decade penalty to lose a playoff game.
JG: And on we go.

It's the life we've chosen. If you add up all of the heartache, frustration, gut-punching loses from multiple sports in both pro and college it will be hard to find a city that treats its fans to such disappointment and torment year in and year out. Last night was a blast at the Barn, we got to watch a great opponent who plays incredible D succomb to our pressure, crowd and emergence of a sophomore big man that (hopefully) is growing before our eyes. We got to watch a team that has dealt with such incredible adversity this year (much of its own doing - Royce, Al and possibly Trevor; and much of it beyond our control - Tubby's Dad, Paul's sister and possibly Trevor) yet they haven't given up on a coach or system that frustrated them earlier and they played their guts out to only fall inches short (again) against a top team (again).

In a season of too many if's, and's and but's, and shoulda, coulda and woulda's, we find ourselves a few points from a lock in the NCAA but more likely hosting a home game after the BTT ends. My wife asked me last night why I keep putting myself through this disappointment and I told her that at some point, things will turn for us. The Gopher football will have that amazing breakthrough season, our 2009-2010 basketball preseason expectations will come to fruition and teams like the Vikes/Twins, etc. will not break our hearts.

Despite so many offseason possibilities (Trevor, Cory, Al, transfers, etc.) I do feel better about where we are now than I did after the Michigan and NU games. Much better. But until we see who is on the roster next November, we still have a few devestating loses to shake our head at up here 'Sota.

Go Gophers!!
 

also from Wisconsin and chose this school to devote my sports passion to (among other reasons to choose the U, lol). at times I wonder why I didn't just go to Wisconsin :eek: just kidding...thank God I am a Packer fan, at least they don't always let me down (just usually!) but man I am with you on Gopher bball, fball, and the Twins.
 

Rooting for the Gophers is a little like raising a child. The more effort you have to go through to get them through life - the more you love them. This lousy year will make the next good one- please make it next year- all the sweeter.
 

It is amazing the new and terrible ways the local teams find to lose. If the game last night had just gone the way it appeared to be going in the 1st half, and we'd lost by 15 points, I'd be over it by now. Hey, they're just better then us, and we're going to the NIT. But, no, instead we rallied, played great and with tremendous heart. But still came up one point and one second short, for the 5th or or 6th time this year. Now it will sting until at least tip-off on Saturday. And when Arizona State or Notre Dame or some other team I know we're better then is playing on NCAA Thursday, I'll be bitter.

It seems ironic and a bit sad that the one team in town that has actually taken us to the mountain top (the Twins) tried to off themselves not 10 years later after basically being told they could leave, we didn't care. We really can't win.

That said, the Twins and Gopher basketball are the two teams I'm still stupid enough to get fully sucked in by, because they've done it before (World Series, Final Fours). At least with the Vikings I know full well what I'm getting. And yet I really thought even they couldn't screw up 1st and 10 on the opponents 32 yard-line with 1 minute left. But of course, they did.
 

Beej...right on the money, man. Thru adversity we WILL achieve success. When???? Damned if I know. Another thing to remember, God never gives us more to handle than we can handle. It just seems like it. That is why I keep banging my head against a wall....it feels so darn good when I quit. :confused:
 


This thread is exactly why my signature is what it is. Years and years of pain across all sports with the occasional good Gopher hockey season thown in. Oh well, thems the breaks.
 

And Bleed

double your years of frustration and you are in my boat. Will you be sane if you put in another 30 years of this frustration? My only salvation is that i was a fan when the football team actually went to the rose bowl---but i was quite young and really didnt even grasp the significance of it. I thought it would be a somewhat regular occurrence. Us older fans have certainly dealt with more than is reasonable. I am not trying to take away from your frustration as i can certainly identify with it. There does seem to be a cloud over U sports. Will the cloud ever lift? Will I still be alive? Will you still be alive? *wink*
 

Bo Schembechler had a good saying on this matter.

“When your team is winning, be ready to be tough, because winning can make you soft; on the other hand, when your team is losing, stick by them. Keep believing.”
 

Its not just life as a gopher fan, its life as a Minnesota sports fan. We are all pessimists because we have had our hearts ripped out time after time.
 




Rooting for the Gophers is a little like raising a child. The more effort you have to go through to get them through life - the more you love them. This lousy year will make the next good one- please make it next year- all the sweeter.

Love this.

To continue the analogy, Gopher Football, no doubt will always beloved by me, has entered its teenage years and has started to develop a drug habit, it tells me how much it hates me and I'm starting to get bitter.

Gopher Bball is trying its damnest at least.
 

Rooting for the Gophers is a little like raising a child. The more effort you have to go through to get them through life - the more you love them. This lousy year will make the next good one- please make it next year- all the sweeter.

Yes, but this season seems like you've raised the kid; they've graduated from college; gotten a job; gotten married, etc. Now you're ready to enjoy life and the kid is not only divorced, but has lost the job and is now back living at home eating your food and not helping out in any way.
 

Quit your whining, guys. At least you have had the occasional Gopher hockey championship to feel good about. I am a Gopher fan for all sports EXCEPT hockey because I have the extreme misfortune to be a lifelong UMD Bulldog fan. Just think about that for a minute or two, and then count your blessings.
 



Upnorth...You, my friend have a real problem...UMD Bulldog fan. I'd rather have my problem...BEER FAN!!!
 



Like many of you have eluded to. It is not just the gophers.

http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/page2/story?page=simmons/100129&sportCat=nfl

That is a great article.


It's because of all this suffering, that I believe we are superior fans. We still keep coming back, we still believe. It was October 15th, 2005 on a long stroll down from the homerdome down Washington Ave to the west bank, across the 10th avenue bridge and back to campus, that I realized it might always be like this, and I guess I will still be a gopher fan because I have no choice. We don't just lose, we raise it to an artform.


(10/15/05 was the block punt wisco game)
 

also from Wisconsin and chose this school to devote my sports passion to (among other reasons to choose the U, lol). at times I wonder why I didn't just go to Wisconsin :eek: just kidding...thank God I am a Packer fan, at least they don't always let me down (just usually!) but man I am with you on Gopher bball, fball, and the Twins.

I get a kick out of people that are Packer fans AND Twins fans since the Brewers suck. Talk about bandwagon.

I have a colleague (for the lack of a better term) that grew up in the suburban Twin Cities and attended Bethel. This person is a fan of the following teams. Packers, Twins, Gopher basketball, Wisconsin football, Gopher hockey, Bucks, and Wild.

WTF???
 

I get a kick out of people that are Packer fans AND Twins fans since the Brewers suck. Talk about bandwagon.

I have a colleague (for the lack of a better term) that grew up in the suburban Twin Cities and attended Bethel. This person is a fan of the following teams. Packers, Twins, Gopher basketball, Wisconsin football, Gopher hockey, Bucks, and Wild.

WTF???

Myself, I'm a fan of blonds, brunettes and redheads, not necessarily in that order.
 

Myself, I'm a fan of blonds, brunettes and redheads, not necessarily in that order.

19, and I am a fan of cold beer, in no particular order. Remember, cold anything is better than an empty fridge.
 

Heck, life as a Minnesota sports fan is not easy. But it's the life we've chosen. Sure I'd love to have some odd reason to cheer for Duke even though I'm originally from Wisconsin (just giving you a hard time Pewter! ;) ) but heck, I choose pain and continued frustration even over an alma mater that recently won a national championship and is currently #1 in the nation. Why? Because you don't give up the on a passion, even if it continues to punch you in the gut. Over and over. Oh, and over again.

The thrill is in the chase, Bleed. The outcome is secondary. Or at least so we must try to convince ourselves.
 

I wrote this in response to SS in a different thread on this very subject. Why do I care about Gopher Basketball?

"I enjoy baseball. I can't wait to get to an outside Twins game in a ballpark and not a "stadium". But I could never have the same "juice" for baseball. Enjoyable? Yes. Fun? Absolutely, but it's not the same. I quit caring about the NFL around he time Chuck Foreman retired so that is a burden I don't have to deal with. I grew up playing hockey and the NHL does nothing for me. College hockey is a boutique sport. I listen to (mostly) and watch when I can every Gopher Football game. I always have. (see the above quote "why? I don't know, I just do.) They are a very distant second to me when it comes to sports that I care about. College BBall is the only thing sports-wise I'm passionate about and the Gophers are my team, I can't figure it out either".
 




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