Wouldn't that make Barker the manipulator then? He rages against the program and lies about abuse, guilt-trips them into thinking he deserves another chance, then he feigns repentance. All to get his scholarship?
Bull $hit. Do not let this guy back on the team.
It is apparent -- by all the talk about him being special, and his obsession with his parents, and approval from those above him -- that he wants to be treated like a child. Remember how all of Kill's former players came out and said that Kill was a great man because he treats his players like Men?? Well, I'm sure that's what he did with Barker, and Barker couldn't handle it.
After having survived Basic Military Training within the year, it is clear that to make a truly solid team, some manipulation is needed. You simply accept that these are head games meant to make you a better player, teammate, soldier, whatever. Nothing is personal in all of that, except for the fact that the coach, or drill instructor, or whoever, simply wants to make you a better person. IT IS HIS JOB TO MOLD, MANIPULATE, CHALLENGE, AND CHANGE YOU!! You accept it for what it is - and don't whine about it. Certainly don't stab anyone in the back because of your selfishness.
Now, there are lines, and sometimes coaches and Drill Instructors cross them a bit. Deal with it like a man! Tell that person with all due respect that they crossed a line. They will likely not cross that line again, and will probably respect your maturity for it. Often they are testing you to make sure you know where the line is, but more often than not they are teaching you that you need to be able to deal with unfair situations!! Sometimes we DO play Michigan -- you think that is fair? You think referees call games fairly? Of course not!
Barker has proven to be quite immature, and therefore an unstable presence on our team. Let him go.