I realize every day I could never be President of the United States of America because I hate the deep South.
dean, i actually feel sorry for you and anyone else with such a naive and provincial attitude (most of whom have never even stepped foot in the "deep south"). so many people misunderstand the south because they never grew out of the second grade understanding of "civil war: north anti-slavery and righteous. south: pro-slavery and morally corrupt". for someone who generally posts well though-out and nuanced posts in the off-topic board, i am disappointed.
i am always amazed at the cognitive dissonance that most people face when on the one hand i hear "history is written by the winners" and then respond so virulently when it is suggested that their naive understanding of the civil war comes from years of propaganda written by the winners.
i don't think that the south has an inferiority complex, but if she did it would be understandable to anyone who has seriously studied what the war did to southern society. rape, killing and burning. we have a problem when the u.s. treats a pashtun villager as an enemy of the state and yet we cannot extend that same understanding to the other side of the conflict between the states. people actually make jokes about sherman's march, and they are usually the same kind of people who would be mortally offended if someone were to joke about deforesting hundreds of thousands of acres of jungle in vietnam or pouring water over the faces of a suspected terrorist or joking about bombing some country back to the stone age. for the sheer terror and destruction that the north perpetrated on the south, i would expect a little bit of mistrust to be ingrained in the south's collective psyche.
i am not a southerner. i grew up out west and went to school in the midwest. but half of my family lives down south and my dad was an athlete at auburn and went to vet school there (and i know
plenty of auburn fans and all of them were rooting for ohio state). i can honestly say that i have felt a bit of mistrust from my on flesh and blood down south because i am not a southerner. i don't harbor any hard feelings. i try to do my best to understand an event that is so complex socially, economically and culturally that the only way for simple minds on both sides to truly comprehend it is to buy into the unsophisticated pablum that each side feeds us in an attempt to sooth the confusion of the cognitive dissonance.
i will leave you with one of my favorite songs. it was written by levon helm -- certainly not an inbred redneck, in fact no even a southerner but a canadian -- and covered by folk singers from the north and the south. it captures the essence of the underlying damage caused by one of the most damaging wars ever fought:
(edit: levon helm did not write "the night they drove old dixie down", it was the guitarist robbie robertson. and helm was not a canadian)